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20 Behavior lawless Wife Against Husband
There are several factors that can be the cause of the lawless behavior of the wife to the husband, among others:Social position much higher than the wife's husband's position,Wives richer than husbands,Wife smarter than her husband,Character harder than her husband's wife,Wife comes from the cultural environment that puts women lebiih powerful than her husband,The wife does not understand religious beliefs that puts the wife and husband in real terms.20 As for the ungodly behavior of the wife to the husband is as follows:
1. Ignoring Authority husband.
In the household, the wife is the one who is under orders husband. Wife in charge of executing the commands applicable husband in the household. Depicting the Prophet if a husband be ordered to move a job to the red hills white hills or vice versa, then there is no choice other than to carry out the orders of her husband his wife.
2. Against Command husband.
In the household, the command is a command to be executed wife of a husband. So is the ban to be implemented is the ban on her husband's wife.Word of the Prophet: "It is not a woman to fulfill the rights of his Lord that he fulfill the rights of her husband". (Narrated by Ahmad and Ibn Majah)The hadith does not necessarily put sederaja husband standing with God, but simply explained that if the husband the right to be obeyed in accordance with the provisions isstrinya that God was violated by his wife, together with his wife this means breaking the commands of Allah.
3. Reluctant Husband Fulfilling Sexual Needs.
Marriage is governed by Islamic law to provide a lawful way for a husband and wife to have sexual intercourse or the distribution of biological urge. Thus humans can regenerate offspring in a way that diridlai Allah.Therefore, Islam asserts that her husband's wife who refused the invitation means opening the door anathema against him.
4. Accompany Husband Will not Sleep.
From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet said: "... When the night sleeping wife separated from her husband's bed, angels curse him till Shubuh."
When the wife wants to sleep on his own, was her husband was at home in the evening, then he must ask permission to her husband.
5. Burden of Shopping husband.
Allah has asserted that every man is responsible to provide for his wife according to ability. Wife realized that her husband's poor expenditure is not justified demands of her husband only consider her own needs so burdensome.
6. Not Want To preen her husband.The wife was ordered to submissive to her husband, including care of herself with her makeup and dress up in order to please her husband and raises passions in life with him.
7. Destructive Religious life husband.Wife ordered to assist him in enforcing religious life, while the husband was ordered to lead his religious wife run properly. Therefore, if the wife does not want to establish the religion of petrified husband, let alone destroy religious faith and morals husband, of course, he plunges him into hell.
8. Disregard the interests of husband
Aisyah ra, he said: I asked the Messenger of Allah. : "Who is the person who has the greatest right to a woman?" His saying: "Her husband". I asked: "Who is the greatest man his right to a man." He said, "mother". (HR.Bazaar and Judge; hasan Hadith)
Clearly the above hadith that interests take precedence husband by a wife rather than the interests of sesndiri biological mother.
9. Exit Home Without Permission husband.
Wife set by Islam became vice husband in taking care of the household. Therefore when he came to leave the house, then by itself it must first obtain the permission of her husband. If he did not ask permission and leave the house on their own accord, then he has violated his duty to the husband, while violating obligations to her husband means ungodly.
10. Husband Escape From Home
The Messenger of Allah said: "Two groups that prayer is not beneficial to her servant who escaped from the house of his master until he came home, and a wife who fled her husband's house till he returns." (Narrated by al-Hakim, from Ibn 'Umar)
11. Receive The Male Guest Unpopular husband.
In a Hadith, the Prophet has insisted that a wife is required to fulfill the rights of her husband. Among them are:a. Do not let anyone who does not endeared him to touch his bed.b. Does not allow guest entry if the person concerned was not liked by her husband.(Narrated by Ibn Majah and Tirmidhi, Hadith hasan saheeh)
12. Refuse No Other Man touch.
".... The righteous women are obedient again it maintains (her and her husband's property) where they have none of her husband as Allah has been to maintain it ..." (Surat an-Nisa '(4) Paragraph 34)
Prophet explained that a wife who lets herself be touched by another man divorced. It shows that the act is a crime against the wife of her husband.
13. Husband Will not caring When Sick.
If a wife refuses husband caring for the sick by reason of busy work or no time for caring for the child, then he has acted improperly.
14. Fasting Sunnah Without Permission When Husband At Home.
Abu Harairah, that the Messenger of Allah. said: "A wife is not lawful to fast when her husband is in the house without his permission." (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
15. Tells the Inside Physical Other Woman To Husband.
From Ibn Mas'ud, he said: Messenger of Allah. said: "A woman should not be hanging out with another woman, then told her husband that women state, so her husband as if seeing the state of the woman." (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
16. Rejecting Arrivals Trophy To her husband.
A wife is a co-wife, remains under an obligation to obey orders, please him, berbhakti and always behaved well to her husband when he comes innings.
17. Obeying commands Others Residential husband.18. Telling Husband Divorce honey
19. Ask the Divorce without valid reason.
20. Taking Treasure husband without his permission.
40 Responsibilities Of Husband Wife
1. Appreciate the function of husband against wife2. Provide a living3. Meet the requirements of the wife or her family4. Provide home5. Dowry debts6. Ornate themselves to please the wife7. Care of children wife8. Satisfy the sexual needs of his wife with the good9. Menyenggamai not wives during menstruation10. Treat his wife with courtesy and respect11. Advised his wife and the wife character builder12. Put the interests rather than the interests of other people's wives13. Told his wife to pray14. Sent veiled wife15. Away from sin wife16. Lighten the workload of wife17. Forgive shortcomings wife18. Rotating wives justly if polygamy19. Punish wife when doing duharka20. Invite and encourage wives to worship and symbols of Islam21. Immediately return when finished affairs outside22. Taking arbitrator if there is a dispute with wife23. Provide severance to ex-wife during the iddah24. Soon met his wife, when attracted to another woman25. Was not hurt and expel wife26. Did not make the wife as a leader rumaha stairs27. Was not home when the wife woke midnight28. Had not taken her to a public bath29. Was not sworn off forever wife30. Mendhihar no wife (wife considers as her mother)31. Did not accuse without proof of adulterous wives legally in Islam32. Did not pull back the dowry of his wife33. Did not fuse with his sister or aunt wife34. Did not put the wife at home with brother-in-law35. Did not please the wife by breaking faith36. Was not arbitrarydivorce37. Did not preclude the wife asked for a divorce, if the reason is legitimate38. Usher wife go to Hajj39. Did not tell the husband-wife relationship to others40. Willingly over wife's death
There are several factors that can be the cause of the lawless behavior of the wife to the husband, among others:Social position much higher than the wife's husband's position,Wives richer than husbands,Wife smarter than her husband,Character harder than her husband's wife,Wife comes from the cultural environment that puts women lebiih powerful than her husband,The wife does not understand religious beliefs that puts the wife and husband in real terms.20 As for the ungodly behavior of the wife to the husband is as follows:
1. Ignoring Authority husband.
In the household, the wife is the one who is under orders husband. Wife in charge of executing the commands applicable husband in the household. Depicting the Prophet if a husband be ordered to move a job to the red hills white hills or vice versa, then there is no choice other than to carry out the orders of her husband his wife.
2. Against Command husband.
In the household, the command is a command to be executed wife of a husband. So is the ban to be implemented is the ban on her husband's wife.Word of the Prophet: "It is not a woman to fulfill the rights of his Lord that he fulfill the rights of her husband". (Narrated by Ahmad and Ibn Majah)The hadith does not necessarily put sederaja husband standing with God, but simply explained that if the husband the right to be obeyed in accordance with the provisions isstrinya that God was violated by his wife, together with his wife this means breaking the commands of Allah.
3. Reluctant Husband Fulfilling Sexual Needs.
Marriage is governed by Islamic law to provide a lawful way for a husband and wife to have sexual intercourse or the distribution of biological urge. Thus humans can regenerate offspring in a way that diridlai Allah.Therefore, Islam asserts that her husband's wife who refused the invitation means opening the door anathema against him.
4. Accompany Husband Will not Sleep.
From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet said: "... When the night sleeping wife separated from her husband's bed, angels curse him till Shubuh."
When the wife wants to sleep on his own, was her husband was at home in the evening, then he must ask permission to her husband.
5. Burden of Shopping husband.
Allah has asserted that every man is responsible to provide for his wife according to ability. Wife realized that her husband's poor expenditure is not justified demands of her husband only consider her own needs so burdensome.
6. Not Want To preen her husband.The wife was ordered to submissive to her husband, including care of herself with her makeup and dress up in order to please her husband and raises passions in life with him.
7. Destructive Religious life husband.Wife ordered to assist him in enforcing religious life, while the husband was ordered to lead his religious wife run properly. Therefore, if the wife does not want to establish the religion of petrified husband, let alone destroy religious faith and morals husband, of course, he plunges him into hell.
8. Disregard the interests of husband
Aisyah ra, he said: I asked the Messenger of Allah. : "Who is the person who has the greatest right to a woman?" His saying: "Her husband". I asked: "Who is the greatest man his right to a man." He said, "mother". (HR.Bazaar and Judge; hasan Hadith)
Clearly the above hadith that interests take precedence husband by a wife rather than the interests of sesndiri biological mother.
9. Exit Home Without Permission husband.
Wife set by Islam became vice husband in taking care of the household. Therefore when he came to leave the house, then by itself it must first obtain the permission of her husband. If he did not ask permission and leave the house on their own accord, then he has violated his duty to the husband, while violating obligations to her husband means ungodly.
10. Husband Escape From Home
The Messenger of Allah said: "Two groups that prayer is not beneficial to her servant who escaped from the house of his master until he came home, and a wife who fled her husband's house till he returns." (Narrated by al-Hakim, from Ibn 'Umar)
11. Receive The Male Guest Unpopular husband.
In a Hadith, the Prophet has insisted that a wife is required to fulfill the rights of her husband. Among them are:a. Do not let anyone who does not endeared him to touch his bed.b. Does not allow guest entry if the person concerned was not liked by her husband.(Narrated by Ibn Majah and Tirmidhi, Hadith hasan saheeh)
12. Refuse No Other Man touch.
".... The righteous women are obedient again it maintains (her and her husband's property) where they have none of her husband as Allah has been to maintain it ..." (Surat an-Nisa '(4) Paragraph 34)
Prophet explained that a wife who lets herself be touched by another man divorced. It shows that the act is a crime against the wife of her husband.
13. Husband Will not caring When Sick.
If a wife refuses husband caring for the sick by reason of busy work or no time for caring for the child, then he has acted improperly.
14. Fasting Sunnah Without Permission When Husband At Home.
Abu Harairah, that the Messenger of Allah. said: "A wife is not lawful to fast when her husband is in the house without his permission." (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
15. Tells the Inside Physical Other Woman To Husband.
From Ibn Mas'ud, he said: Messenger of Allah. said: "A woman should not be hanging out with another woman, then told her husband that women state, so her husband as if seeing the state of the woman." (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
16. Rejecting Arrivals Trophy To her husband.
A wife is a co-wife, remains under an obligation to obey orders, please him, berbhakti and always behaved well to her husband when he comes innings.
17. Obeying commands Others Residential husband.18. Telling Husband Divorce honey
19. Ask the Divorce without valid reason.
20. Taking Treasure husband without his permission.
40 Responsibilities Of Husband Wife
1. Appreciate the function of husband against wife2. Provide a living3. Meet the requirements of the wife or her family4. Provide home5. Dowry debts6. Ornate themselves to please the wife7. Care of children wife8. Satisfy the sexual needs of his wife with the good9. Menyenggamai not wives during menstruation10. Treat his wife with courtesy and respect11. Advised his wife and the wife character builder12. Put the interests rather than the interests of other people's wives13. Told his wife to pray14. Sent veiled wife15. Away from sin wife16. Lighten the workload of wife17. Forgive shortcomings wife18. Rotating wives justly if polygamy19. Punish wife when doing duharka20. Invite and encourage wives to worship and symbols of Islam21. Immediately return when finished affairs outside22. Taking arbitrator if there is a dispute with wife23. Provide severance to ex-wife during the iddah24. Soon met his wife, when attracted to another woman25. Was not hurt and expel wife26. Did not make the wife as a leader rumaha stairs27. Was not home when the wife woke midnight28. Had not taken her to a public bath29. Was not sworn off forever wife30. Mendhihar no wife (wife considers as her mother)31. Did not accuse without proof of adulterous wives legally in Islam32. Did not pull back the dowry of his wife33. Did not fuse with his sister or aunt wife34. Did not put the wife at home with brother-in-law35. Did not please the wife by breaking faith36. Was not arbitrarydivorce37. Did not preclude the wife asked for a divorce, if the reason is legitimate38. Usher wife go to Hajj39. Did not tell the husband-wife relationship to others40. Willingly over wife's death
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